Janet Eldred 2006

York Cemetery Trust

The second funeral: burying ashes and/or placing memorials

A funeral is not just the main event at church, crematorium or cemetery on the day; everything that precedes and follows that event is part of the funeral process. There is often another ceremony – freer in form and content, often smaller and more intimate – for the burial/scattering of ashes, planting of memorial trees, placing of memorial benches, erection of headstones, etc., after the first funeral. Here, families can take a greater role in saying goodbye to their loved one, and this can also be an opportunity to resolve or heal any disappointments about or regrets from the first funeral.


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